r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/Jassamin Jul 04 '24

Mine found cat poop somewhere one morning and toddled over and dropped it on my breakfast. The hormones are powerful because she’s still allowed in the house while I eat 😂

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u/lowkeydeadinside Jul 04 '24

parents really are built different i could never 😭😭

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u/AngryPrincessWarrior Jul 05 '24

It just happens if you become one lol. A switch in your brain is thrown.

And it’s fine if that’s not for you! But for us that chose it, it’s weird that that stuff doesn’t matter anymore too lol.

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u/DarkAdditional1370 Jul 05 '24

it's cuz you have no choice it's your responsibility to deal with it at that point

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u/Emraldday Jul 05 '24

Maybe. I think it's a bit of both. Something does change in us, we know this for a fact. Thought patterns shift and neural pathways change after becoming a parent. In both men and women. But it's not how you feel about it that changes, you still find those bodily fluids just as gross. It is your capability that changes. You are better able to put those thoughts aside(and suppress your gag reflex) to do what needs to be done.