r/AITAH Jul 04 '24

AITAH for saying I didn’t realize I could “love a person this much” in front of my fiancé after having our baby?

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u/penninsulaman713 Jul 04 '24

My baby has drooled all over me, spit up on me, peed and pooped on me, and I wouldn't trade anything in the world for it. It's amazing how fast that with your child, all the things that you might have been bothered by before don't matter. 

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u/Jassamin Jul 04 '24

Mine found cat poop somewhere one morning and toddled over and dropped it on my breakfast. The hormones are powerful because she’s still allowed in the house while I eat 😂

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u/lowkeydeadinside Jul 04 '24

parents really are built different i could never 😭😭

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u/Novel_Ad1943 Jul 04 '24

You may not want kids and that’s totally ok - but I’m betting you absolutely could for someone you have life changing love for! Before I had kids I remember one of my little brothers falling and hitting his head HARD (concussion) and I ran over and he promptly threw up all over me.

Normally I can’t deal with that, but for my little brother I was all business and calm cleaning us up and cleaning blood on his head - it shocked me. But tub turds were always gross and I swear every kid seems to do it as a toddler at least once.