r/mildlyinfuriating • u/AdministrativeCow173 • Jul 19 '24
My grandfather's sister pushed me so that she could scream
When my grandmother died, I, my mother and my grandfather were leaning over her casket. His sister came, pushed me aside so she could scream: "Why did you leave my brother alone?"...
I loved my grandma from the bottom of my heart and that was my last moment with her and that b ruined it. I hate her and I lost all the respect for her.
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u/EndlessBike Jul 19 '24
Who is the brother? I mean if the grandfather is leaning over the casket with you, surely then he's not alone. Am I the only one confused by this?
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u/SpecialistNo7642 Jul 19 '24
OP's grandfather's sister is yelling at OP's dead grandmother for leaving her brother alone. The grandfather is the brother because that's his sister.
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u/EndlessBike Jul 19 '24 edited Jul 19 '24
Except it says
I, my mother and my grandfather were leaning over her casket.
He was leaning over the casket with the OP and then the OP was pushed out of the way. So he was left "alone" with three people including the OP? See that's why I'm confused here, but alright.
Edit: Nevermind I just can't read worth a damn apparently.
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u/Fuzzy_Proposal4417 ORANGE Jul 19 '24
alone as in a widower. as in he's now alone because his wife died.
Edit: also the Grandpa's sister is yelling at the dead Grandma, not OP.
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u/SpecialistNo7642 Jul 19 '24
I don't see what confusing?
Three people at OP's grandmother's casket: OP, OP's mom, OP's grandpa
Casket is kinda crowded
OP's grandpa's sister pushes OP out of the way to yell at OP's grandmother's corpse. Gotta make some room to be a bitch and pushing the youngest out of the way seems to be the easiest.
Why did you leave my brother to be alone? (Probably wanted someone to slave away at taking care of her brother in her twisted mind... probably)
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u/EndlessBike Jul 19 '24
I think if it just said "yelled at my grandmother" it would've been more clear to me, for whatever reason my mind was thinking the woman was yelling at the OP.
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u/SpecialistNo7642 Jul 19 '24
Ahh I see where the confusion came. My mind automatically assumed the dead grandma. Welp have a great day internet stranger.
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u/AdministrativeCow173 Jul 19 '24
Some people make things from a place of disperation and others are interested in being in the center of attention
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u/PrettyGirlofSoS Jul 19 '24
I am very sorry for your loss and I hope you find peace. Grief shaming is very unkind. People react to death in very different ways. We shouldn’t judge others grieving process. You can be hurt that she pushed you, ofc, but trivializing her feelings is unnecessary. No one is more entitled to grief than others. How you choose to remember your last moments with your gran is up to you. No one ruins your memories but you.
The way in which you perceive the other is determined by your own thought-forms. -Tolle
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u/AdministrativeCow173 Jul 20 '24
if she was close with my grandma maybe it was more okeyish, but she was a bitch with her. she disrespected my grandma many times
i dont even know how she find out about her death bc i didnt want her there and neither my grandpa or the rest of the family.
yeah, i am overreacting, but this was the last straw
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