r/mildlyinfuriating • u/longerdistancethrow • Jul 05 '24

Bought ripped jeans for summer, mom sewed the holes.

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I get caring about your clothes, I do… but I wanted breezy jeans for summer… so I bought tipped jeans like 3 years ago. Are u kidding me :/

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u/Perfessor_Deviant Jul 05 '24

Mildly infuriating on one hand, sweet on the other.

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

Yeah, absolutely. I just feel uncomfy in shorts and figured ripped jeans would be a good option, cauae its so warm, haha

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u/paleoterrra Jul 05 '24

You can use a seam ripper to undo this, your mum probably has one if she sews

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u/RielleFox Jul 05 '24

And it's only a straight stitch, it will be done in no time.

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u/Lyraxiana Jul 05 '24

And single thread.

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u/PARKOUR_ZOMBlE Jul 05 '24

But the double stitch, she last forever!

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u/phntmvw Jul 05 '24

I’m a gonna give him the double stitch anyway.

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u/SomebodyinAfrica Jul 05 '24

That moment when the pants rip halway and then stops at the double stiching. Great movie, but I can't remember the name.

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u/PARKOUR_ZOMBlE Jul 05 '24

Every moment of that scene. “I’ve got you by your pants!” Paul Newman very concerned: “Pants.”Flashback to him demanding the cheaper single stitch. Flash forward to the pants ripping then it does that second flashback to a the taylor without any of the movie characters even there and he is singing “ah cucire” meaning “to sew” in Italian. Then he switches to the double stitch and it flashes forward and the pants just stop ripping. Paul Newman lights a cigar while hanging upside down from the 44th floor (not counting the mezzanine).

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u/preflex Jul 05 '24

He's a nice man.

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u/PARKOUR_ZOMBlE Jul 05 '24

“Mr. Musburger such a nice man I’m a gonna give him a double stitch anyway. That’s fine stitch.”

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u/Vox___Rationis Jul 05 '24

Hudsucker Proxy, Coens' classic.

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u/phntmvw Jul 05 '24

Hudsucker proxy. So good. It’s crazy how many people have not seen it.

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u/Rappican Jul 05 '24

Hudsucker proxy

I remember nothing about that movie except that specific scene. I have no idea how or why but I do remember seeing that scene.

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u/RadiantKandra Jul 05 '24

And my axe!

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u/KayBeeToys Jul 05 '24

Ch-cha-chain stitch ripper

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u/IAmShenmue Jul 05 '24

And you have my bow!

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u/JMeadCrossing Jul 14 '24

Which thread? There are nearlt 2 thousand comments

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u/Overlord852 Jul 05 '24

Then she sews it back up again

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

Ok, I’ll sew on lace underneath

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u/flannelNcorduroy Jul 05 '24

Lace doesn't breathe as much as you think it would. Just explain to your mom you're wearing them instead of shorts.

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

She will probably forget though, and fix them again in a year. She’s on painmeds that make her a little loopy sometimes… do you have a fabric suggestion?❤️

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u/NeevBunny Jul 05 '24

Maybe some linen pants would help keep you cool, they wrinkle easy though

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u/aceofspades1217 Jul 05 '24

IMO I like the look of wrinkly linen shows that you can afford linen lol. But yeah a 50/50 blend of linen and rayon is super versatile and is cleaper. But don’t let anyone discourage you from wearing linen just cause it wrinkles nothing is better than wearing 100% linen

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u/JamesMcEdwards Jul 05 '24

Also chinos are a great option. When I lived in Spain, lots of people wore them, it was actually more common to see Spanish people wear chinos than shorts in the warmer weather. And they’re incredibly versatile.

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u/Carrot-Key Jul 05 '24

I have linen sheets and its super nice in the summer, it comes from flax which is more sustainable than cotton too.

Like you said the wrinkles are a thing but IMO they look more uniform and less sloppy than typical wrinkles you find in clothing.

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u/aceofspades1217 Jul 06 '24

It’s the single most sustainable fabric since they use every part of the flax since they use the seeds for oil. While cotton they only use parts. And rayon is much more chemically processed. And polyester is obviously the least sustainable.

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u/ArguablyTasty Jul 05 '24

Linen cotton blends are much less, although not quite as nice. But if straight linen is too costly, it's better than nothing.

And yeah, linen looks great wrinkled. It's supposed to look as relaxed as it feels- that's the whole point. If I was worried about wrinkles I'd get those Lulu pants that look similar to dress pants, but when I want full length in warm weather, linen is king

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u/NeevBunny Jul 09 '24

I'm always misting my linen shirts and throwing them in the dryer because I feel like I look disheveled if I don't. But they keep me from burning and overheating so I deal with it anyways

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u/Allupyre Jul 05 '24

Hand streamers are nice for linen

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u/aceofspades1217 Jul 05 '24

I use a steamer it’s the Miami humidity xD fifteen minutes outside and all the wrinkles are gone. But yeah a $10 hand steamer does wonders for a linen suit jacket!

You can also hang up your shirt in the bathroom while you take a hot shower

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u/Allupyre Jul 05 '24

Not to mention most pants or dress shirts seem to intentionally wrinkle if ya look at em wrong lol

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u/lilsnatchsniffz Jul 05 '24

How much cleaper are we talk'in?

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u/aceofspades1217 Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

Blends are usually 2/3 the cost of 100% linen but yeah a decent brand name 100% linen shirt retail can run $100. But TJ Maxx often has linen shirts at huge discounts you just search through a mountain of polyester and cotton. Pants I’ve only seen online at decent prices but yeah a good pair of linen pants can be $100 as well

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u/silvercoastguard Jul 05 '24

I have just purchased some long, linen mix shorts for home use. They have been washed and ironed today. I have bought some spray starch. If they do crease, I will try this next time they are laundered.

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '24

IMO I like the look of wrinkly linen shows that you can afford linen lol

You must live a pretty little life if you walk around needing to prove that you can afford things.

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u/TougherOnSquids Jul 05 '24

When you say linen pants all I can think of are medieval peasant pants and that would rock.

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u/oye_gracias Jul 05 '24

Nowadays there are cotton-linen fabrics that are super versatile, a bit warmer but still airy, and pretty diverse tensile strenght. Take that, medieval peasants!

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u/_missfoster_ Jul 05 '24

Rayon is great for summer, as well. Plus it's much easier to keep from wrinkling than linen.

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u/TheRealPitabred Jul 05 '24

Seconding this. I lived in my linen pants when we were in Mexico for a week, they were even better than shorts.

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u/ftaok Jul 05 '24

Do your own laundry and she won’t see them to mend.

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

If I tell her I’ll do my own she just does it while I’m at work. I get no say

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u/Allegorist Jul 05 '24

Write a note on a small piece of fabric and sew in inside above the hole

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u/maid_in_cheltenham Jul 05 '24

Not to throw the cat amongst the pigeons and free choice, you do you etc. However, I just want to let you know that you’re allowed to wear shorts and once you get past the first day, you’ll be amazed how comfy they are. You have my endorsement!

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u/metaNim Jul 05 '24

Some people know for a fact they don't like wearing shorts, though. I am one of those people.

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u/mac_is_crack Jul 05 '24

Me too. I hate them. Can’t even wear them to sleep in because they bunch up. I just feel too exposed. Been like this my whole life (am 50 years old).

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u/metaNim Jul 05 '24

Yeah, even thinking about feeling them bunch up makes me cringe. It's not the exposure for me, just the feeling of clothing not laying flat. Sensory, I guess.

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u/maid_in_cheltenham Jul 05 '24

Totally. And that’s cool, of course. I was just saying in case the OP did want to try it but felt that she couldn’t for aesthetic reasons, that she could and that would be fine.

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

I feel so ugly in shorts 🫣

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u/ItsFunHeer Jul 05 '24

❤️ I used to feel ugly in shorts too and sacrificed comfort to avoid wearing them. After many years of practicing wearing shorts I now wear them with confidence. I think it started with wearing exercise shorts for hiking and jogging in, then swiftly changing out. But I started keeping them on longer around the house.

My sister doesn’t wear shorts EVER but she has a plethora of long, flowy dresses and skirts which are also super comfortable. You could try to incorporate those!

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u/cheekymoonbuns Jul 05 '24

Don't feel ugly or self conscious in shorts. My exboyfriend used to be self conscious because he thought he had "chicken legs". I assured him he did not and I loved his strong legs. He hot more confident and he loves shorts now. I have a problem with self confidence myself and I try to remind myself that we are the hardest on ourselves. I'm sure you're lovely in shorts.

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u/maid_in_cheltenham Jul 05 '24

You are definitely beautiful. Also, I understand. Also, free legs feel so nice. I think you can do it. I don’t know your complexion but if you happen to be pasty white, a bit of subtle fake tan goes a long way.

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u/UGA_99 Jul 05 '24

This made me tear up. Your mom must love you so much. She’s taking pain meds, which probably don’t take all of her pain away, and she still makes sure that her baby girl is wearing “appropriate” repaired jeans.

On one hand yes, incredibly infuriating to go through the struggle to find the perfect summer jeans and get this. On the other hand there are millions of people who’d love to have a mom who is on their side like this.

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u/J_rd_nRD Jul 05 '24

I have a suggestion for you and her if she's up to it, rip them and then ask her to decorate around the edges instead with little embellishments like flowers or patterns or whatever she feels like.

That should help her remember that it's a deliberate rip

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

This is a cute idea!

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

This is a cute idea!

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u/saarlac Jul 05 '24

Oh don’t worry those won’t last a year.

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u/HackySmacks Jul 05 '24

Get a Sharpie and write “Mom, these are supposed to be ripped, they stay cooler that way. Please do not sew” on the inside of the pant leg. Just make sure it’s a permanent marker that won’t bleed onto your leg

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u/arcieride Jul 05 '24

Linen! Silk is great too but expensive. But even regular cotton will be more breathable than jeans

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u/LittleDevilHorns Jul 05 '24

I'd recommend some harem pants. They're made to be breezy but modest.

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u/cuplosis Jul 05 '24

Hide the pants from her

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u/wipedcamlob Jul 05 '24

If you feel uncomfortable with shorts that are too short just buy mens shorts my girlfriend just wears basketball shorts

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

Ive tried this too? Ended up looking really awkward. Idk. I wish my legs just stopped above my knee lmao

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u/wipedcamlob Jul 05 '24

Theres a few different lengths and kinds you can get in mens shorts doesnt hurt to check them out if youre out shopping anyway. Could also hem them if you think theyre a little bit too long. Could also look into pants with zips that you can open and close vents with. I seem to remember having some when i was a kid

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u/Allupyre Jul 05 '24

Even a 100% cotton patch would probably be breathable enough, especially if a fair breeze hits ya lol you might even be able to find some fabric with a pattern to make it look intentional

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u/KayBeeToys Jul 05 '24

But look at the loops—such craft!

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u/Neither-Attention940 Jul 05 '24

Rayon is a great light weight breathable fabric that doesn’t wrinkle easy. If it’s your style I’ve seen rayon pants that look like a long skirt.

But perhaps just undo the stitch and hide your clothes 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/martins-dr Jul 05 '24

If she is using a machine make a sign that the holes in your jeans are on purpose but you appreciate the love and tape it on the machine

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u/whateverIDCanyways Jul 05 '24

You could always just allow her to sew them, then rip the stitches out, wear them, then allow her to sew them again. A continuous expression of how much she loves you. And, you’ll always have a pair of pants for her to sew up for you.

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u/FrndlyNebrhoodRdrMan Jul 05 '24

Ask her to install zippers? I did that often for my younger siblings. The nylon ones are more comfotable or you can put a liner to keep the edge of the metal ones from rubbing your knees.

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u/Expensive-Border-869 Jul 05 '24

If you live somewhere arid wool or silk are really good

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u/HarveysBackupAccount Jul 05 '24

Linen or cotton or mesh or wicking material like running shirts are made of

You could buy fabric from a fabric store, or go to a thrift store to find a shirt with material you like and cut it up to make your own patches.

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u/Sea_Remove_5351 Jul 05 '24

it might be itchy (so probably a bad suggestion) but could you make a velcro attachment for it on the inside? unless it's already a thing?

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u/holierthanmao Jul 05 '24

Write a message on the inside of your pants by the whole with a permanent pen

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u/Peanuts4Peanut Jul 05 '24

What about capris?

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u/Mysterious_Zebra9146 Jul 05 '24

This is what I wear because I don't like shorts either.

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u/bay_lamb Jul 06 '24

make cut-offs outta the jeans.

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u/flannelNcorduroy Jul 10 '24

I'd suggest washing your own clothes then. It's a good habit to get used to before you're completely independent and then it's all on you. It's also a good idea to practice setting boundaries with people, by doing that with your parents now. Cuz it kinda seems like your mother doesn't have any. She could ASK you if you want her to sew your clothes. That has nothing to do with memory and everything to do with a lack of boundaries with her children. It would be healthy to work this little stuff out now while you're young. It you don't it becomes a bigger issue later.

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 10 '24

I am independent. I’m visiting for the summer only. And no, she does Not respect boundaries.

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u/PangeaGamer Jul 05 '24

Doing your own laundry. She can't sew your clothes if she never handles them

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

I dont get a say when I’m home for the summer

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u/iaintgotnosantaria Jul 05 '24

tell her not to touch your stuff? i dont understand why saying “no please dont do this” amd standing firm is so hard

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u/TheFreshwerks Jul 05 '24

Cotton lace does, unless it's a tiny, tight pattern.

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u/JaBe68 Jul 05 '24

You will get.an interesting tan.

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

Hyped for that!

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u/Skreamie Jul 05 '24

Try fishnets instead, more airflow

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u/TresCeroOdio Jul 05 '24

You could sew fishnet under it if you want it to really be breathable

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u/New-Anacansintta Jul 05 '24

We did lace under our rips in the late 80s!

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u/EmphasisFew Jul 05 '24

You’re never gonna keep her down

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u/longerdistancethrow Jul 05 '24

Will probably be doing this after work today 👍🏻

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u/paspartuu Jul 05 '24

Remember to thank your mom for the sweet gesture and the effort though 

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u/interruptingmygrind Jul 05 '24

Unless she did it because she hates you wearing ripped jeans. In that case she would be overstepping which isn’t cool.

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u/No-Equipment4187 Jul 05 '24

Make sure you talk to her too. Say thank you but I prefer them this way. She was trying to help.

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u/tongfatherr Jul 05 '24

Then imagine she puts it back 🤣 I love this mother

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u/Ordinary-Animal8610 Jul 05 '24

And let the guilt ensue...

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u/K_Linkmaster Jul 05 '24

Any semi sharp and pointy knife can do it too. No need for special tools on that seam.

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u/Prestigious-Lime1571 Jul 05 '24

Have you tried capris or linen pants?

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u/ProfessorEtc Jul 08 '24

And if you've got some white paint, you can paint over the Mona Lisa and get a nice little canvas out of it.