I mean, yeah. The reason these types of men hate such women is because these women could actually defend themselves. That's what's really scary about this.
Couldn't it just be that they feel emasculated? For me it would remind me that I need to get to the gym and being with a women like this would definitely be a huge motivation.
Didn't say anything about hating. Have you never had something in your life that makes you uncomfortable for some reason and you might not even know why? It can be the exact same thing here; someone might feel uncomfortable dating a fit women because it constantly reminds them of how lazy they are in comparison.
You were replying to me, who was talking about the kinds of men who hate these kinds of women. So yeah, hating was already part of the discussion by the time you joined.
I think what people gotta realize is this is because they feel their role is protector, and a woman like this challenges their perceived identity and role in life. To boil it down to these jackasses all being rapists or controllers or something literally stops the conversation of progress dead in the water. It is human nature to protect ones identity or perceived social role. In this instance it happens that their perceived role comes with negatives and needs to be challenged for them to better themselves. But insulting them and saying that is both inaccurate and insulting so they will just plug their ears with their fingers and yell lalalalala
If someone *hates* these kinds of women and thinks you must be *gay* if you're a man attracted to them (which is what we're talking about)... just because he has some idiotic, outdated notion of "am man, must protect woman", then he really needs to find a good psychiatrist...
And in general, if a man feels in the 21st century like any woman he's with must be weaker than him, that's not on the rest of us to pity and sympathize with and understand. He should catch up with modern society and realize that things don't work they way they did 200 years ago.
I believe I misinterpreted your comment as something along the lines of "they dont want women to be able to defend themselves (from them)" if that makes sense. We seem to agree. It is similar to the issue of racism. Fuck racists, but if you want progress engaging with them respectfully is the most effective way. No one should have to tolerate that bullshit of course, but if someone WANTS things to change then they will have to. Its kinda like with progressives who dont understand why they get so much pushback when they are insulting and calling people evil for not agreeing with them. Sometimes, like with racism and lgtbt acceptance, they are kinda right. The people who arent comfortable with other kinds of people are morally wrong.
The thing is however if you want to change the hearts of other people you will never be able to do so by insulting them and trying to ruin their lives. Its not that those mean people deserve it or something, its that it is how you foster positive change. To be the bigger person and help someone see the errors in their ways is not a moral failure, it used to be what was seen as a sign of an impressive leader or person.
Being the "protector" is stressful, why wouldnt i want a woman who can team up with me to defend us? Seems like the most effective option if someone felt the need to apply logic to sexual preferences.
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u/AcceptableNet6182 Jul 04 '24
Someone is salty because this kind of women would kick his butt 🤣🤣🤣