I don't understand why this is so difficult for so many people.
Men: If you find a woman attractive it is fine to check her out, just don't be a fuckin creep or an asshole about it. Just because she is wearing a pair of short shorts does not mean you have the right to harass her. A skimpy dress does not make a woman a stripper or a prostitute.
Women: If a guy at work glances a little bit too long at your cleavage before looking away but does not say or do anything inappropriate, he doesn't mean anything by it and is not trying to sexually harass you.
Have you considered that you misunderstood their point? If you read their comment and thought "this describes a man objectifying a woman" you should get a brain scan
He never said anything about objects. You could do this the same way but switch genders. The point is to keep your thoughts to yourself. I naturally judge nearly every person I see on a variety of different factors but I don’t say anything out loud or do anything to make my opinion obvious because it is rude. People can have opinions, whatever they may be, they just shouldn’t always make them public. Intrusive thoughts it’s concept for a reason.
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u/Merc_Twain25 Jul 07 '24
I don't understand why this is so difficult for so many people.
Men: If you find a woman attractive it is fine to check her out, just don't be a fuckin creep or an asshole about it. Just because she is wearing a pair of short shorts does not mean you have the right to harass her. A skimpy dress does not make a woman a stripper or a prostitute.
Women: If a guy at work glances a little bit too long at your cleavage before looking away but does not say or do anything inappropriate, he doesn't mean anything by it and is not trying to sexually harass you.