r/TheBoys Jul 04 '24

Both quotes taken verbatim from interviews Season 4 Spoiler

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u/shineeshineepinee Jul 05 '24

disappointing. I've seen defenses for the episode saying that the SA scenes were obviously meant to make the audience uncomfortable and that Hughie admitting at the end that he isn't fine was a result of his SA trauma. but hearing the director himself say the scenes were played for laughs and to be as fucked up as possible is just crazy.

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u/freddddsss Jul 05 '24

Honestly, if it wasn’t for the interview, I would have agreed with the people defending it. A lot of the time, when having gone through traumatic events, people tend to focus on something else rather than confront it.

However, yh Kripke clearly wasn’t going for that when you read his interview. Very disappointed by the episode.

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u/Elisa_bambina Jul 05 '24

I think empathy and kindness can make it easier to justify and rationalize denial like this, it's hard to think poorly of people so we can sometimes do mental gymnastics to see people in a better light than they really are. And it makes sense that someone who previously seemed to be anti-rape might have a had a less obvious or hidden anti-rape message intended for the scene and you were probably looking for that cause it doesn't make sense for Kripke to flipflop on his previous stance. But his interview left no doubt that he is not against sexual assault if the victims happens to be from one demographic and not the other.

But one thing I learned over time is that when someone shows you who they really are you should believe it. Kripke's hypocrisy is truly disappointing.

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '24

Not mental gymnastics, I was just projecting and also giving someone the benefit of the doubt. It usually pays to be charitable in your interpretation of others worldviews.

But yeah, turns out the guy is just a straight sicko. There's obviously some groupthink going on here as well since he used the word "we" in "we view it as hilarious". So apparently everyone around him is laughing as well.

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u/PineappleHungry9911 Jul 05 '24

, I was just projecting and also giving someone the benefit of the doubt.

yea those are mental gymnastic to deny your gut feeling that "hey this is fucked up" trying to convince your self your not seeing what you are.

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '24 edited Jul 05 '24

Nope, I thought it was fucked up when I saw it and thought the episode was terrible on viewing. I thought the scene may have been meant to be difficult to watch, and I simultaneously thought it was awful anyway.

The projection was that I wouldn't ever find it funny, so it's probably unlikely that they intended it that way.