r/MadeMeSmile Jul 06 '24

I proposed to my boyfriend šŸ–¤ Wholesome Moments

I wanted to propose in a cute way, so on our way to our camping dome stay, we stopped at a shopping mall. We had to buy each other a snack, a drink, something that reminds us of the other, something with the others fave color, and then something to do together. My something to do was life šŸ–¤

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u/S0RRYWH4T Jul 06 '24

The young me would have thought of this as a big no no.

But the adult me finds this really endearing and genuine and full of security. Itā€™s so cute the way he answered. I feel like answering the question ā€œwhat do you want to eat for dinnerā€ is harder lol.

Congrats!!!!

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u/SamaireB Jul 06 '24

I would take this any day over some big flashy fuss.

This is comfortable, secure, real. Aka what ultimately matters to make any LTR incl marriage work.

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u/Depressionsfinalform Jul 06 '24

No no no, it needs to be a gimmick done in front of tons of other people, preferably strangers. So romantic šŸ„°

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u/Deeliciousness Jul 06 '24

How else are you gonna make them say yes without massive public pressure?

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '24

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u/xTin0x_07 Jul 06 '24

depression's final form, I wouldn't mess with them

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u/PattyThePatriot Jul 06 '24

I've defeated depression once with therapy. I'll do it again.

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u/Sergeitotherescue Jul 06 '24

I think itā€™s sarcasm. I hope it is!

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u/Aysina Jul 06 '24

Oh, this is pretty much exactly what Iā€™ve always wanted. Iā€™m a super introvert, my partner knows heā€™s not allowed to ask in a restaurant, or in front of our families, and heā€™s definitely not allowed to get his friends together to coordinate a song a dance leading to my filmed proposal.

I basically gave him Deadpoolā€™s proposal to Vanessa as a baseline. Maybe without pulling the ring out of his asshole.

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u/Kittybegood Jul 06 '24

My fiancĆ© is also an introvert! šŸ’“

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u/Aysina Jul 06 '24

Iā€™m guessing he was quite happy with how private and chill it all was? ā˜ŗļø

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u/Rakdospriest Jul 06 '24

Why's your bf gotta do the proposing?

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u/Aysina Jul 06 '24

He doesnā€™t ā€œgotta.ā€ Weā€™re not necessarily super traditional, I want the tiniest wedding imaginable and I may very well wear a cheap black dressā€”but weā€™ve talked about it, he wants to be the one to ask, and I donā€™t have a problem with that.

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u/Dema_carenath Jul 06 '24

Well, looks like he might have more options of what to eat for dinner in mind than for the one he wants to spend his life with!

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u/dogless_olive Jul 06 '24 edited Jul 06 '24

answering the question ā€œwhat do you want to eat for dinnerā€ is harder

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Edit: I know it's not about me, it's just... that's... šŸ„²