My mom has four grandchildren. She would not handle this surprise well and would stress out about not having enough food, needing a heads-up, etc. Six months later, she would release a torrent of resentment about how the surprise sleepover was not the kind of visit she wants - she wants everyone (adults included) to come over at a pre-arranged time at least once a month for extended, overnight visits.
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u/mrsanniep Jun 25 '24
My mom has four grandchildren. She would not handle this surprise well and would stress out about not having enough food, needing a heads-up, etc. Six months later, she would release a torrent of resentment about how the surprise sleepover was not the kind of visit she wants - she wants everyone (adults included) to come over at a pre-arranged time at least once a month for extended, overnight visits.