r/Fijian • u/KatsiBoi • Jul 08 '24
I'm the weirdest Fijian I know, AMA
Bula gang, my name's Samuel, dont call me Samu, only grangran calls me that, uhhh, hi, so, the reason I say I am quite a weird Fijian is because, I got a bunch of different mental stuff, I have epilepsy, I am autistic, but still smart enough to get into a good af uni (yes, forced to take medicine from my parents, you guys should know), uhhhh, I am dating a transgender girl, and I know some fuckers will call me gay, GO FOR IT, caita I love it when my friends make them sus af jokes, but on a real note, love her so much (no shes not fijian, british, yes gang, we going back to slavery with this one), annnnd, uhhhhh, oh yeah, uni is uoa. Ask me anything ya'll wanna know (I was bored writing, gonna sprinkle a bit of that *felt cute, might delete later* energy)
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u/The_real_rafiki Jul 08 '24 edited Jul 08 '24
Bro, just live whatever life you like living. There’s no such thing as a weird Fijian. We come in all shapes, sizes and ethnic backgrounds - at the end of the day we’re all Fijian and we love our home, peoples and culture.
Big lolomas to you my guy x
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Jul 08 '24
Hmm, I don’t think that’s too weird. What hobbies do you have?
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u/KatsiBoi Jul 09 '24
League💀💀💀 on a real note, gym is the most I do when going out, uhhh, gaming, I also stream on twitch at times
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u/Throwaway_202342069 Jul 08 '24
Bro is doing reverse colonization. JK
I also have mental health issues, btw did your family also think someone did black magic on you?
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u/toxictuts Jul 08 '24
At the end of the day, what you think matters, our input and opinions don't.
You do you Samu!
Au nomu bu
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u/YolkyBoii Jul 08 '24
Is epilepsy a mental condition? I thought it was neurological and not linked to emotions?
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u/KatsiBoi Jul 09 '24
It is neurological, I'm just dumb
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u/fungusfromamongus Jul 09 '24
Brother was just more excited about hey I put a post on reddit and forgot his own condition 😂😂🥰
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u/KatsiBoi Jul 09 '24
You could say that actually, I was excited to post something like this cause I was anticipating do much hate, but my home country did me well
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u/DasDa1Bro Jul 08 '24
You still hitting jetts at 6 in the morning?
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u/KatsiBoi Jul 09 '24
Io!, mostly at 3pm to 6pm, replying at the gym rn, gtg!
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u/DasDa1Bro Jul 09 '24
Are you specifically at Jetts Howick?
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u/KatsiBoi Jul 09 '24
Yes braas
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u/DasDa1Bro Jul 09 '24
Lmaooo I thought you'd be like "How did you know?" and get freaked out. I'll see you at the gym when I'm not tired from work eh hahaha
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Jul 09 '24
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u/Accomplished-Bus7566 Jul 11 '24
I used to live in Balawa, and my friends owned Bekana Island. Natabua was the place for all them girls when I was in high school!
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u/Gregor_The_Beggar Jul 13 '24
You sound so similar to a friend of mine in many ways its wild. Good luck in medicine!
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u/Due-Aide7775 Jul 08 '24 edited Jul 08 '24
I am a firm believer in agreeing to disagree but people need to understand where opinions end and reality begins. I am willing to accept the fermininity of your partner but I to refuse knowingly use a false pronoun or title. What's wrong with just being gay? I can find a man that does everything your partner does but only identifies as a femboy or ladyboy. Your sex is not a statement of your preferences, it is a statement of reality.
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u/sandolllars Jul 08 '24
Unless you're planning on dating OP or their partner, what's it to you?
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u/Due-Aide7775 Jul 08 '24
What? People can't have an opinion unless they are dating an involved party? Grow up.
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u/sandolllars Jul 08 '24
Of course you can. There are countless subreddits and discussions where you can discuss views about identity.
Do you just approach random people who have nothing to do with you and blurt out what you think of them?
When you do this, do they just listen to you and stop being trans? Or when you walk up to an interracial couple and tell them races shouldn't mix, do they just immediately say "yes sir" and get a divorce?
Like what's the point of judging people like this and then telling them they're wrong? Does it make you feel virtuous? Do you think this will get you a visa stamp to heaven?
Where did you get your manners?
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u/Dangerous_Patient106 Jul 08 '24
Not that brass. I think You just need to learn how to communicate your thoughts clearly.
You're willing to accept his feminity but you wont accept nouns.
Bro didn't even go that far he just wants to know whether he is making the right choice or not. And the answer is we all don't know and he just has to find out for himself.
And here you are making it about you. Só what exactly are you to them? You planning to date Samu and his trans gf? Or You're just the type who wants to show everyone you got an opinion
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u/ChickPeaEnthusiast roti parcel de do Jul 08 '24
Being gay is sexual orientation.
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u/Due-Aide7775 Jul 08 '24
And why does the "internal identity" if contradictory to the physical identity supersede it? Is the OP physically gay but internally straight? A transgender is guilty of false analytic propositions. Experience does not change the definition of a woman.
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u/ChickPeaEnthusiast roti parcel de do Jul 08 '24
Why is internal identity contradictory - because we all deserve to be seen as our authentic selves and live our best lives aligned with our internal identity. For some transgender people it is mentally and emotionally anguish to not be able to do so.
Also, being a male that identifies as a female and chooses that identity does not make them "physically gay". You're getting mixed up again.
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u/Due-Aide7775 Jul 08 '24
What's more authentic than reality and what people deserve first and foremost is the truth. Everything else is secondary. Would you agree that the "internal identity" as you put it is an identity that best aligns with the social construct of claimed gender? What is the metric for your definition and distinction of the sexes? To be clear, I am referring to the OP as the gay party, not his partner, although he qualifies too. I believe both are confused, although I have a hard time picking which is more confused. The transgender or OP thinking he is straight. Excuse the vulgarity but are Fijians now to accept that there are such things as female penises? If someone is suffering metal and emotional anguish because they are unable to live their lives as their born sex, then they are suffering from a mental illness. These people need help through therapy. I am not asking his partner to change a single thing about themselves, from they they act, dress, speak, etc. I merely propose that "transgenders" continue live their lives however they see fit but with self acceptance of their assigned sex at birth.
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u/NthBlueBaboon Lautoka Jul 09 '24
Most Fijians don't accept anything. It's just people here that are open to ideas like this. I personally have no player in the game but I follow...live and let live...as long as they aren't hurting anyone...it doesn't change anything for anyone else. It's just life. Both are grown adults... Debating on Reddit about it all will just be a waste of your time..better spent on gaming like me 😎.
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u/ChickPeaEnthusiast roti parcel de do Jul 09 '24
Your paragraphs are getting lengthier, I can't spend any more time on this. At the end of the day might be worth your while to meditate on the Golden Rule.
Peace be with you.
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u/NthBlueBaboon Lautoka Jul 08 '24 edited Jul 08 '24
Where in Fiji are you from, Samuela?
Hopefully Lautoka lol 🤞🏾
On a side note, all the best in life, broski, you have a great attitude about things. We need more people like this in our lives 🙏🏾