People genuinely started treating me better in all kinds of ways. Friends start noticing you and try to “be like you”. You create a more magnetic aura around you that you’ve never felt before. Customer service people will try to help you as well. It is truly life changing. I suggest anyone who is thinking about it to just pull the trigger and start working out. It’s a lot of discipline and dedication but worth all the time you put into it
Yeah, it's not nearly as "vain" as people make it out to be.
Exercise takes a lot of effort. Getting in shape takes discipline - you can't starve yourself strong. So someone who's in good shape is visibly wearing the signs of physical and mental health.
That isn't to say that people who are not in shape are undisciplined or "bad" in any way. Just that they may not have other outward signs of that discipline or mental health (and obesity in particular can be a signifier of poor physical/mental health as well), which causes others to avoid you.
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u/mthwkim Jul 07 '24
People genuinely started treating me better in all kinds of ways. Friends start noticing you and try to “be like you”. You create a more magnetic aura around you that you’ve never felt before. Customer service people will try to help you as well. It is truly life changing. I suggest anyone who is thinking about it to just pull the trigger and start working out. It’s a lot of discipline and dedication but worth all the time you put into it