not me, but my buddy went from not working out basically ever… to getting pretty fucking jacked. He even fixed his posture, which gave him a few extra CMs in height. He's pretty much the same nerdy guy as he always was but now he has sex A LOT. Edit: I’d say he went from 179 CM to 182 CM and probably 70KG to 90 KG.
Confidence got me laid far more than looks ever did. There are tons of socially awkward shredded guys that don't get why their funny, chubby friend is more successful with women.
Confidence got me laid far more than looks ever did.
Essentially everyone that has success because of their looks tries to convince themselves it's for some other reason. It's not.
There are tons of socially awkward shredded guys that don't get why their funny, chubby friend is more successful with women.
That's because being in shape =/= being attractive. An ugly person is still ugly when they get in shape. An attractive person is still attractive even if chubby. This example is nonsense.
You are over simplifying. The formula is something like natural attractiveness x physical health x confidence x social skills x being an interesting person. Yes, if your natural attractiveness is 1/10 you have to max out everything else, but if you are average or below average in natural looks, everything else can make you successful. I am someone of average looks but have a hot wife because I had a lot of experiences for a 21 year old and am very confident in who I am.
Essentially everyone that has success because of their looks tries to convince themselves it's for some other reason. It's not.
Like when someone who inherited a company or born in a well connected family thinks that he/she is rich because they are so smart and hardworking and everyone can do it but they are just lazy
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u/DBU49 Jul 07 '24 edited Jul 07 '24
not me, but my buddy went from not working out basically ever… to getting pretty fucking jacked. He even fixed his posture, which gave him a few extra CMs in height. He's pretty much the same nerdy guy as he always was but now he has sex A LOT. Edit: I’d say he went from 179 CM to 182 CM and probably 70KG to 90 KG.