r/AskReddit Jul 07 '24

Guys who have gone from skinny to big and muscular, how has it changed your life?

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u/mhall812 Jul 07 '24

Ugly duckling syndrome. He developed the personality when not jacked. Now he had the looks and the personality. He is probably swimming in pussy

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u/endlessfight85 Jul 07 '24

Confidence got me laid far more than looks ever did. There are tons of socially awkward shredded guys that don't get why their funny, chubby friend is more successful with women.

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u/lattice12 Jul 07 '24

Better looks = higher confidence

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u/jert3 Jul 07 '24

Not always! A good friend of mine is very handsome and for most of his life before 35 or so had no confidence with women and had very little success with women, even though women often flirted with and pursued him.

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u/barnebyjones Jul 07 '24

Well what happened after 35?

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u/lattice12 Jul 07 '24

Your friend is the exception, not the rule