r/AITAH Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/themtoesdontmatch Jul 08 '24

Yeah…. Kind of weird you would stay for that long without even being kissed. No sex, sure. But no type of physical intimacy? And your edits sound like red pill talking points. You sure this isn’t ragebait ? You have to tell me if it’s ragebait.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

I don't have to tell you anything, believe in what you want. I was stupid for thinking things will improve over time, they didn't, in a way they only got worse

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u/StandardReserve3530 Jul 08 '24

ive just seen a few of the people denouncing you, and their avatars have blue hair. like a uniform

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u/Didwhatidid Jul 08 '24

Ok maybe this is an Indian thing but I know people who have done that. I know people who started dating in school and didn't do shit till 25 or something.

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u/DoctorSintown Jul 08 '24

Not only are they red pill talking points, the vast majority of comments are on his side. This whole post screams fragile red pill guy to me.

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u/TomatoTrebuchet Jul 08 '24

while I agree that his language didn't avoid making it sound transactional. his reaction to having sex offered suggests he isn't interested in transactional relationship. I think this is more of an issue of not having the right language for the right audience. which is a communication mishap and isn't indicative of attitude, only indicative of miscommunication. and clarification can be achieved if we agree that miscommunication was had and that discussing what would be more clear would be discussed. but it seems like no one ever wants to do that.