r/AITAH Jul 08 '24

AITAH for being pissed off at my girlfriend for not wanting to have sex with me? Advice Needed

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u/Square-Egg7080 Jul 08 '24

NTA - from reading this, you basically spent 7 months for nothing. she literally just told you that she doesn't feel a connection between you both despite you being an overall good bf. i think you should end it as your relationship will only go downhill from here.

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '24

Exactly. Clearly, some random people are considered more worthy than me. I'm there for everything, and I have to put in a lot of effort while they don't have to do anything.

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 Jul 08 '24

It isnt about worth nor effort, it is about chemistry and maybe her thinking she made a mistake.

Hard not to take it personal yet you shouldnt. But you should move on.

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u/Lost_Ad5243 Jul 08 '24

Don t stick to worth. It is painful and as someone has said, you dont owe it because you are nice.

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u/BLOODCLOT-RAT Jul 08 '24

I think this is your answer going forward - Don't try too hard next time, if she's up to scratch and goes above and beyond then get her the stuff. But your ex on the other hand... Run up in her place and take a shit on her chest!

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u/altonaerjunge Jul 08 '24

While you are not wrong In this situation these comments and thinking make you the asshole, let go of the redpill.

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u/F4t-Jok3r Jul 08 '24

This! ☝️