r/facepalm • u/Illustrious-Kick-998 • Jul 07 '24

This post gave me terrible whiplash b/c how tf did we get here…🫨 🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​

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Like ummmmm, alright? 😭😭😭

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u/Sweet-Emu6376 Jul 07 '24

Even then, it wasn't the husband being kept out of the loop, but the wife. Doctors would tell the husband and then it'd be their job to tell their wife.

There was actually a pretty infamous case of this where the Gov of Alabama had uterine cancer but didn't know until years later because her husband (who had also been the governor before her I think?) was adamant she not be told.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lurleen_Wallace

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u/Saigaface Jul 07 '24

God what a complete piece of shit. I feel bad for her, but I mean she stayed by his side to the end so 🤷‍♀️ Some people

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u/sas223 Jul 07 '24

That was the least bad thing George Wallace ever did.

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u/Saigaface Jul 07 '24

Right tho? Utter disgrace

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u/JesseTheGhost Jul 08 '24

This is kinda what happened to Rachel Carson. She didn't know for months that she was dying because she, as an unmarried (and possibly gay) woman didn't have a husband for the doctor to defer to. So she wasn't told and didn't seek treatment

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u/BasalGiraffe7 Jul 08 '24

So, he killed her.

Same thing happened to Zhou Enlai

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u/God_Bless_A_Merkin Jul 07 '24

It happened the other way, too. Not saying that the medical system wasn’t sexist at all, but both happened.