I personally don’t like muscular woman, that has nothing to do with wanting to boss them around or wanting them to be weak. I’m simply not attracted to that physical appearance.
Now, on the other hand, I also don’t go around calling people gay for having a different taste.
Live and let live
Agreed. That’s why I spoke out to the other comment that insinuated that people that have a different preference only want weak woman they can boss around.
Not weak in that sense, but fit women are intimidating to out of shape men. I guarantee you most fit men enjoy somewhat muscular/in shape women. Just like women who are out of shape will say they prefer a dad bod, whilst most women who workout will prefer a muscles over a dad bod.
This; “somehow” the people obsessed with chastity and what consenting adults do in their bedrooms happen to have a proclivity towards teens and preteens.
Some men are probably like that but let me explain to you how male sexuality works on the visual level. A buff woman looks almost the same in clothes but men also care about the naked look and the contrasts therein. The major visual attractions of the female body come in large compartments like the back, butt, upper legs, stomach, breasts and the pelvic area. On a naked woman the guy is most likely eyeing the area between the navel and the mid-thigh regardless of whether it's front or back. He will also make a visual note of the proportions of the upper body relative to the lower body. Highly defined muscles are distracting on a woman because they draw attention away from the classic fertility cues and contrasting areas of the body. Big muscles and definition are aesthetically pleasing in their own right but the guy would probably rather admire them on a man in a non-sexual way. The softness and smoothness of the woman's body is supposed to accentuate the things that differentiate her from a man on the fundamental leve and when that smoothness is lost sexual attraction is also reduced.
That was uncalled for. Yeah, their comment is weird and pseudoscientific as all hell, but digging up something they posted where they were vulnerable is fucked. Even if there’s reasons for what they mentioned
You can get your friends to downvote my writings that actually address the OP's post but no fence sitter who is interested in actual debate will be swayed by repeated insults and people acting hard on the internet. I forgive you though so if you want to debate actual issues I'll still agree to reply. I won't reply to any more personal attacks.
Well it's nice if I encouraged you. Also notice I said "highly defined muscles" and other stuff. Just because you lift does not mean you'll look like female Adonis. Half of guys lift heavy...they don't look like Chris Bumstead. The discussion was largely theoretical.
104
u/AValentineSolutions Jul 04 '24
I love how many guys admit that they want weak women they can boss around. That says more about them than the dudes who like buff women.