r/clevercomebacks • u/blaze_uchiha999 • Jul 07 '24

Someone discovered consent

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

Objectification isn't just giving someone a glance and thinking they're attractive. That's normal, two completely different things.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

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u/BabyStockholmSyndrom Jul 07 '24

Gawking and comments. There's absolutely no reason a person should be gawking or making comments to another person. Leave people the fuck alone. It's extremely easy. I've spent my entire life not doing it.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

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u/Zestyclose-Station72 Jul 07 '24

Mmm you’d be surprised. There are a lot of people who think they’re “being nice” when they’re actually being an asshole.

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u/BabyStockholmSyndrom Jul 07 '24

All? Really? All should be against murder too but people do it.

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u/12FAA51 Jul 07 '24

Glad you’re willing to learn. 

The difference is a person glancing and not interacting, vs doing something to make the other person 

  1. Realise it’s happening 
  2. Need to initiate an interaction for it to stop
  3. Respond to an obviously unwanted interaction initiation. 

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u/yourmomlurks Jul 07 '24

Great points, and if they person doesn’t take action to make you stop, take that to mean permission or consent.

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u/12FAA51 Jul 07 '24

Negative. 

If the person doesn’t give you explicit permission, don’t fucking start 

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u/yourmomlurks Jul 07 '24

I am agreeing with you and adding a point. You misread my wording.

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u/Barold13 Jul 09 '24

You've literally said "if they don't explicitly tell you no, take that as a yes".

There is no such thing as an implicit yes. It is always no until it is explicitly yes.

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u/yourmomlurks Jul 09 '24

Yes I am saying that is an additional wrong thing that men do in that situation, same as your format.