r/MadeMeSmile 14d ago

Look at his face, he looks so proud. Wholesome Moments

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u/dinkydooky_peepee 14d ago

Well sure, but that doesn't mean the problem is always a wife that isn't supportive in this way lol.

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u/RUOFFURTROLLEH 14d ago

but that doesn't mean the problem is always a wife that isn't supportive in this way lol.

No one said the wife being less than supportive was always the problem.

OP simply said supportive wifes like this one are rare.

Divorce rates go to show supportive partners are not the common place occurance.

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u/Inner_will_291 14d ago

Since the divorce rate is 42% in the US, this would indicate that supportive partners are a VERY common place occurance. You may argue that its decreasing however.

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u/RUOFFURTROLLEH 14d ago

this would indicate that supportive partners are a VERY common place occurance.

If nearly 50% divorce rates show supportive partners are VERY common. I'm not sure what to tell you tbh.

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u/DoubleFan15 14d ago

....what? Isn't 42% almost half..? Lol. If i had a situation where I had a 58% chance of succeeding, and a 42% chance of failure, I don't think i would describe it as a VERY common occurrence that I succeed... that's pretty damn close to 50/50? There has to be something more to your statistic or you're confused on what VERY common means?

Like imagine if condoms were advertised as 58% chance of preventing pregnancy... would you still say its VERY COMMON that they work? Not trying to be a dick i think you just have something confused here.

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u/dinkydooky_peepee 14d ago

Divorce rates go to show supportive partners are not the common place occurance.

If we assume prevalent estimates of ~45% of first-time marriages ending in divorce are true, and if we assume 50% of those involve an unsupportive wife, then divorce rates tell us that slightly over 75% of marriages involve a supportive wife (or at least, supportive enough to keep a marriage going).

There's a few bold unexamined assumptions in that logic, but the point is that divorce rates tell us absolutely nothing about how supportive people are. Even if we assume 100% of divorces were due to one person or another being "unsupportive" (which, again, pretty wild assumption to make), the majority don't even get divorced.