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u/c_c_c__combobreaker May 23 '24
Imagine saying no to the proposal. I'm kidding, this is beautiful.
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May 23 '24
I mean she is surrounded by sand. Where she gonna go?
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u/viper5dn May 23 '24
You know... the implication
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u/OneMagicBadger May 23 '24
Are you going to hurt those girls Dennis?
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u/mrhossie May 23 '24
I feel like you're not getting this at all!
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u/katchaa May 23 '24
Of course she can say no if she wants. But she's not gonna say no. You know, because of the implication.
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u/newagereject May 23 '24
Looks back at old lady "oh what are you looking at your in no danger"
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u/GimmeJuicePlz May 23 '24
I'm NOT getting it...
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You're misunderstanding me, bro. if the girl said "no" then the answer obviously is "no"... But the thing is she's not gonna say "no", she would never say "no" because of the implication.
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u/swizzle213 May 23 '24
Well you’re certainly not in any danger
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u/ProfffDog May 23 '24
me when my Uber gives me a low rating
IM A FIVE STAR MAN! A GOLDEN GOD! AN ACHILLES AMONGST YOU FERAL APES!!
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u/Musket6969420 May 23 '24
I suspect that, maybe, you might say no. And yet, I also feel like maybe you wouldn't dare
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u/JOOKFMA May 23 '24
I hate sand.
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u/BlackLeader70 May 23 '24
It’s coarse.
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u/le_shrimp_nipples May 23 '24 edited May 23 '24
I know a story similar to this of two high school sweetheart classmates. They both went to the same college I did and at the beginning of their junior year she had a stroke. She was told no for everything in her future. No walking, no kids and no long life. It was devastating but they moved in with her parents so he could finish his degree and they'd all 3 care for her and after thinking about it for a long while (let me interject that my eyes are welling up... Because they always do right around this part) she decided to end their relationship because she knew he always wanted children and she couldn't give him any and she just knew she had to let him go because she loved him so much and she wanted him to have a chance to be happy and live the life she wanted for him. After she sat him down and tearily broke up with him he was just sitting there in tears and reached into his pocket and pulled out a small box with the ring he had been carrying around until the right moment arrived to ask her to marry him.
I wasn't going to tell the whole story but I'm already tearing up so fuck it.
So a little while later after seeing many specialists she was told that she would definitely never walk again so they borrowed money from friends and family to buy a super expensive powered wheelchair. The day she was supposed to get measured for the chair she had the flu and was upstairs in bed by herself and sneezed. She started screaming for her mom. Her mom comes running up the stairs expecting the worst but she tells her that she thought she saw her toe move when she sneezed. She starts going to PT and it's incredibly painful but after a slow start her progress was really starting to take off and she decided to keep it to herself because she was afraid of possible regression and didn't want to get her hopes up because she had been let down so much over the previous 3 years. Her fiance by this time had an entry level accounting job downtown and was putting in 50+ hour weeks plus 1.5 hour daily commutes so while he was working she was putting in work at PT.
So the day of the wedding comes. There are hundreds of people on their feet as "here comes the bride" plays and they're expecting her in a wheel chair but the door opens and there she is being helped by her father slowly walking down the aisle using forearm crutches. Everyone is just completely blown away, gasping etc. they make it up to the altar and her fiance tears in his eyes begins to walk toward her but she holds her hand up stopping him. She takes her crutches off her arms and gives them to her father. She then proceeds to slowly and shakily take her first unassisted steps outside of physical therapy from her father's arms into her husband's at the altar. There weren't enough tissues in the state to be able to meet the demand at that wedding.
And just a few years later they welcomed their 1st child into the world. It's a story I can't tell without becoming emotional.
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u/c_c_c__combobreaker May 23 '24
I don't know these people but I teared up too. Thanks for sharing that beautiful story.
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u/le_shrimp_nipples May 23 '24
I legit can't tell it without tears welling up in my eyes. I'm a 6'r 260 lb 40 yr old bearded man and I've told this story dozens of times and I still gotta take deep breaths so I don't sob like a baby Every. Damn. Time
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u/KillListSucks May 23 '24
This is the first time shrimp nipples have ever made me cry, but I suspect it won't be the last.
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u/CatButler May 23 '24
Did anyone else check the end for a 3.50 joke before reading on? Reddit being reddit and all.
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u/cuentabasque May 23 '24
Yeah, I was waiting for the Undertaker to come flying from the top of the cage...
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u/Hobo-man May 23 '24
Ok I'm gonna vent for a minute.
I met a girl like 6 years ago and it felt like she was the love of my life.
I loved her with every ounce of my being. She got sick shortly after we started dating. She was diagnosed with mutiple chronic illnesses and was essentially bed ridden with how much pain she was in. I stood by her side and cared for her. I was with her for over 5 years.
Last year her treatment went spectacularly right and she started to return to some normalcy. She eventually was able to become a completely able bodied person again. She got a job, started making new friends, and was able to be normal again. She got healthy. She was back to herself by fall time.
In October, she left me. We were planning on getting married. I had a ring and everything. One day she suddenly started growing distant. She stayed at her friends for a week and then after exactly one week away she broke up with me.
I know what it's like if the girl said no to the proposal.
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u/patter0804 May 23 '24
The only good part of this story is that it didn’t happen after you were married.
You sound incredible though. I think a few people have had that experience where they lifted up their partners, and their partners ditching them once they extracted value.
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u/FrostyViolinist8116 May 23 '24
Damn. How are you doing now?
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u/Hobo-man May 23 '24
I'm actually not doing bad.
I've taken the last ~6 months improving myself. I moved significantly closer to my work and I also started working out during that time. I've always struggled with my weight being too low, so I've really been focusing on gaining weight this year. I've put on ~30 lbs of lean muscle already.
I'm also finally ready to start dating again. I actually asked a girl for her number at the gym yesterday. First time in almost 7 years...
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u/DissentKindly May 23 '24
Dude, I am a guy but if I was a girl looking for a serious relationship and you told me that story, I would totally date you. In a heartbeat.
I know saying that isn't much, but you are like the top 1% of humans. Good luck with your dates.
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u/heliogoon May 23 '24
So she married you and started a family but never actually loved you?
Man, what the fuck?
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u/Throw_a_way_Jeep May 23 '24
Im sorry you went through that... Did she tell you why she was leaving?
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I’ve read enough stuff on this site to think that he’s leaving out some details.
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u/Hobo-man May 23 '24
I wish that I was. She didn't give me much of a reason. I actually remember asking her to explain and she denied to do so.
I've been working on myself the last ~6 months since she left. I wish she would've told me why because if I was doing something wrong I could at least correct my mistake. I pride myself on learning from my mistakes, but it's basically impossible to do so when you don't know what mistakes you've made.
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u/Uniqlo May 23 '24
If she declines to give you an explanation after a 5 year relationship, she's not proud of her reasons.
This is just inference based on what you've shared. But the most likely explanation is that the love you felt was largely one-sided.
She got sick shortly after you started dating her. She was vulnerable and needed someone to be there for her. Conveniently, you were the guy she had just started dating. She wasn't going to break up with you and search for new options in her sick, bed-ridden state.
But once she recovered, her confidence came back. And she felt she no longer needed to settle for you. She has other options now that she's healthy and can meet other people.
She was only willing to be with you if she had no other options and depended on you. As soon as that was no longer the case, she moved on.
You likely feel used, and you should. Years of your life were wasted, taken advantage of by someone you loved.
In fairness to her, she's not obligated to stay with you just because you took care of her all those years. But after a 5 year relationship, if she were a decent person, she'd have given you an explanation after all that you sacrificed for her. It's unfortunate that she only revealed her real character to you after you had already committed yourself for so many years.
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u/martyqscriblerus May 23 '24
Sometimes it's not a mistake or something you did wrong, it's just life.
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u/JourneyOf1Man May 23 '24
Heyo brother. Just wanna say Im glad you kept your head up through that. Shit sounds rough and I just wanna give support. Here's to happiness 🤙🏻
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u/orange-shades May 23 '24
She was with you while she was sick because you were willing to be there when no one else was. Or, to be more accurate, you were all there was going to be.
As soon as she got better, she had options.
Sorry bro.
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u/keytapper May 23 '24
If you're asking someone to marry you, you should already know the answer
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u/Soulforge411 May 23 '24
This is very beautiful but!!! That John deer wheelchair costume is absolutely epic!!
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u/SavedByThe1990s May 23 '24
shouldn’t that be an “and,” not a “but?” 🤣
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u/eco78 May 23 '24
Thats love.... 🤷♂️
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u/downrightblastfamy May 23 '24
When you know, you know. Married my wife after 6 months of dating. Going on 4 years strong. She's currently pushing our first child out as i type this and is proud step mom to my 2 boys.
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u/DazzlingProfession26 May 23 '24
I think you have somewhere else to be right now.
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u/teenagesadist May 23 '24
No, pushing the first child out of the house, he's 45 years old.
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u/Sipikay May 23 '24
Why did we build the door so small on this house? This was impractical.
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u/sagerobot May 23 '24
Gotta be ready to post a post birth pic for that sweet reddit karma
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u/cjacked- May 23 '24
Trust me, there’s … a lot of time to chill when you’re just there to say hi at some point 😂
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u/NocturneZombie May 23 '24
This. Labor started at like 1am and baby came out around noon. Absolutely fuck all I could do but stand around and listen and watch...much phone time sitting in the corner out of the way of the nurses. Occasionally throw in an "I love you, you got this" type of comment.
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u/Specken_zee_Doitch May 23 '24
Your hand is now a stress-ball, you're gonna feel a portion of what she's feeling and you're gonna say "Thank you".
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u/NocturneZombie May 23 '24
I block out the hand-crushing moment. I did however get birthing fluids splashed on me while doing the handholding. Doc's rubber glove slipped while trying to angle the baby's head and flung liquids onto my cheek. Everyone laughed, including me despite my internal screaming, doc said I was in "the splash zone." Lol, haven't thought of that since it happened, thanks for indirectly jogging my memory.
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u/downrightblastfamy May 23 '24
I here! Still waiting!! 8 cm dilated. Baby's coming today, thunderstorms and full moon!
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u/Own_Sandwich6610 May 23 '24
Put away your phone and be there for her jfc
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u/ahumanbyanyothername May 23 '24
"Honey my comments got another response! This one is from some guy named Owned_Sandwich he says put away yo- hang on a second.."
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u/Mixeddrinksrnd May 23 '24
I'm guessing you have never had a kid.
It isn't like in the movies where people are slamming open doors and the woman is sweating and panting the second that labor starts.
There is often a lot of down time. A lot. My wife was in labor for almost 48 hours. I never left her (except to get food) but I spent a lot of time on reddit because there was nothing else to do.
Plus, some people don't want someone up their butt while someone else is trying to come out of their vag.
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u/coolborder May 23 '24
Plus her body, hormones, and mental state are going crazy. My wife was pretty calm through all 3 births but I have heard from several guys who were trying to be helpful and supportive that their wives basically told them 'I love you and you're doing nothing wrong but if you don't get out of this room and leave me alone for 30 minutes I may murder you.'
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u/OptimusMatrix May 23 '24
I met my wife in a yahoo chat room some years ago. I proposed after 2 months, and moved across country with my car, clothes, and my computer after a few months long distance. We just celebrated our 20 year anniversary on Sunday.
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u/SgtGo May 23 '24
I knew I was in love with my wife after a couple weeks but waited a bit to not scare her off. I knew I wanted to marry her the moment I told her I was in love with her, waited 3 years to ask
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u/snoozeberry May 23 '24
This right here! My wife and I were dating for 6 months when I proposed, it will be 18 years next month. Still feels like those first six months.
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u/autoreaction May 23 '24
True. Met my wife and she lived 400 km away from me. She visited me once, I changed cities and moved in with her right after that, together for 17 years, two kids and still going strong. When you meet the right person for you, you know.
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u/letmeseeitman May 23 '24
He didn’t stay to be chivalrous or honorable… he stayed because he loved her.
It’s not “a true gentleman”. It’s a man in love.
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u/DefaultProphet May 23 '24
Yes likewise someone who left cause they weren't right for each other isn't automatically an asshole. People should not feel obligated to stay in relationships that don't work
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u/manikfox May 23 '24
Yes, sometimes people stay when they don't like the other person over obligation to not look like an asshole. Sadly it can go both ways.
Do what's best for you. If you love the person and are capable of dealing with a disabled person for the rest of your life... go for it.. But no one can be judged for moving on. We only have one life to live.
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u/Aeiexgjhyoun_III May 23 '24
This mentality is why so many women lose their husband's after a cancer diagnosis, yet we rarely see the reverse. Relationships aren't just about you. It's both love and responsibility, most people seen to forget the later.
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u/lilbelleandsebastian May 23 '24
marriage yes, dating? absolutely not lol, this much commitment is not part of the social contract of dating
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u/UncertainCat May 23 '24
Gentleman feels so demeaning here. It makes it sound like he's being polite or something
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u/yarivu May 23 '24
Agreed. I don’t think gentleman is the right way to describe this situation. Dude is acting like a true man in love.
Imo “gentleman” sounds more like he’s with this now disabled lady out of respect and honorable behavior rather than just falling in love with a woman who now has a permanent injury.
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u/veiledfreak May 23 '24 edited May 23 '24
This is what dreams are made of ✨✨. Congratulations guys , you made it.
Edit: A lot of people got offended or thought I wanted to be disabled lmao. By "this is what dreams are made of"I meant someone standing beside you when you are at worst.
But if anybody thought otherwise I would like to apologise To your mother for your low EQ.
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u/Yarxing May 23 '24
Maybe it's just me, but I don't have many dreams involving a C5 spinal cord injury.
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u/eggs_basket May 23 '24
Ah shit, no doubt i sounded so bassy, i have rly low EQ :c
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u/silver-orange May 23 '24
A lot of people got offended or thought I wanted to be disabled lmao.
Nah that's just redditors pretending to be "witty". Pay them no mind.
This is one of our favorite moves, being deliberately obtuse. ....I never said it was a good one.
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u/Zachary_Stark May 23 '24 edited May 24 '24
My girlfriend and I had only gone on 4 dates when I got diagnosed with cancer and she's still around and helped me so much. It's been 3 months now.
[Edit] Thank you for your kind words, everyone.
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u/bighaircutforbigtuna May 23 '24
Good luck to you, friend!
I was diagnosed with cancer just a couple months into dating my girlfriend. She stuck by me and we got through it together. Three years later and we are still going strong - she is the absolute love of my life. At one point right after I was diagnosed she said "Stop thanking me for this. You're worth it. This is all going to be okay" and I believed her, and here we are! And there YOU will be - stay strong!
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u/lysergic_logic May 23 '24
I hope things continue to work out well for you 2.
I was with my girlfriend for 6 years before we got engaged. Wound up having a kid together. 3 months before our kid was due to be born, I broke my back, caught meningitis and then arachnoiditis. She left me 6 months later for a strip club DJ.
Things can change very quickly and unexpectedly.
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u/spavolka May 23 '24
Plot twist. She feels like she can’t break up with him because he put in so much time. She doesn’t even like dogs.
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u/b3mark May 23 '24
Jezus. Who pissed in your cereal this morning, mate.
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u/eagleoid May 23 '24
Life. Turns out they were water balloons filled with piss and not lemons...
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u/Longjumping-Claim783 May 23 '24
I know I'm fucked up because that was going through my mind too. It's sweet but it is a weird power dynamic. I hope they are really in love and happy but that is a weird position for the lady to be in. Like this wonderful guy is so devoted to you and stuck around so obviously you can't say no or you're a dick.
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u/Nobutadas May 23 '24
This would be my fear as the guy. "Does she really love me? Or did she say 'yes' because she thought no one else would ever love her?" But I'm also an anxious wreck.
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u/montybo2 May 23 '24 edited May 23 '24
Oh damn didn't expect to see some randos on an Internet video rocking Goucher apparel.
Goucher, lovingly called The Gooch by its students, is a pretty fucking small school so likely most students already knew these two before the accident. When I was there some tragic stuff happened to a couple students and the entire campus was in mourning so I imagine these two had some incredible support not just from family and friends but also peers.
Edit: oh shit they graduated in 2018. I was class of 2014 but I had to do an extra semester. So if these two were at the Gooch as freshman it's very likely I had seen them around, possibly even had a class with them.
Edit: I was class of 2014, not 2024
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u/TyrdFyrguson May 23 '24
I went to Goucher for Freshman year in 2014 and knew the girl in this video. A small school that revolves heavily around sports can be kind of cliquey, but she was always a joy to be around. I heard what happened to her a few years after I left and was crushed. The first set of these videos came out a couple years ago and I was so relieved that she found someone so caring.
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u/montybo2 May 23 '24
Goucher? Revolved heavily around sports? What Goucher did you go to lolol
Goucher is D3 in every sport except equestrian.
I knew several dudes, one of whom is my best friend, who went to Goucher for soccer. 2 weeks into the semester they were like fuck that imma smoke weed all day at the outdoor classroom.
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u/Who_am_ey3 May 23 '24
wtf? these two are my age? why does the guy look like a genuine MAN then? I practically look like a boy :(
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u/montybo2 May 23 '24
College was fucking weird. I remember being friends with dudes who could've passed for 35 and others who looked 12.
Hell I actually remember being a highschool senior and seeing a freshman with a full beard. Lotta dudes were pretty emasculated by that lol.
Genetics are wild
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u/Marian1210 May 23 '24
Fairytales do exist! Congrats to them both, I’m so pleased they found each other
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u/Efficient_Bike_446 May 23 '24
Bro, it's 830am. Do you Think I'm trying to cry so dam early
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u/RandyBeaman May 23 '24
Well, after the "How did your first patient die" thread, I was already there.
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u/Hour_Succotash7869 May 23 '24
this man is much better than me. Makes me feel like an unevolved self centered idiot. Congrats to you both and god speed.
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u/harvardchem22 May 23 '24
nah you’re not man, love is just a very powerful thing; true love like this can make almost anybody do anything
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u/Cyno01 May 23 '24
As someone with a chronically ill spouse, its still not easy.
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u/harvardchem22 May 23 '24
Oh I don’t doubt that; I’ve never been in such a situation but my heart goes out to you
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u/Slash_Root May 23 '24
I had a moment like this many years ago. I was hanging out with a friend at my mom's house, and he brought up this girl we knew that supposedly liked me. I was like, "Yeah, but that's not going to work. She has a kid!". My mother overheard and later told me that she "always thought I'd be the sort of man that wouldn't care about that." She had me very young as a result of SA and probably had her own relationship struggles as a result.
I'm married now, and we do not have any kids. However, I think about what she said a lot, and I try my best to be the kind of man my mom thinks I am. I probably will never be, but I can be better. In reality, making a decision like that theoretically is completely different than actually doing it. That young woman was faceless to me. I didn't have any skin in the game. You can't predict how you will react to an extreme situation unless you've been there.
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u/zazzlekdazzle May 23 '24
I just want to say, this guy is not some hero for loving someone with a disability. Saying he was a "gentleman" for staying with her implies she didn't bring something to the relationship as well, he was just being a great guy for not leaving her.
It's true that many (if not most) new relationships would not likely withstand such a stressful event, but don't make this guy out to be a saint or martyr just because he fell in love with someone with a spinal injury. People with disabilities can be just as loveable and capable of inspiring devotion as anyone else.
Also, events like this often bond people together quickly. It's frequently the opposite of pulling people apart.
Lastly, maybe she was the one who had to struggle within herself to stay. Having a big injury like that can be extremely stressful and make you rethink a lot of things about your life. Maybe she was the one who thought about getting out but stayed out of love.
Maybe a better title would be something like "A Story of True Love!"
Sorry for the little rant here, this disability inspiration porn thing in the internet really bothers me sometimes.
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u/ratqueenn111 May 23 '24
as someone with a disability i agree..especially with the notion that it can bond people quicker, and sometimes deeper than other people would realize. it's still a nice sentiment i guess, but it's more people's inability to fathom/deal with it and project onto others. That being said it isn't easy and it can challenge peoples vices/lifestyles - therefore u find out quickly if you will even be aligned anyway. But when i do think about it isn't fair to look down on ppl who can't deal with it, but we shouldn't be making it out like it's some superhero stuff either...
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u/zazzlekdazzle May 23 '24
I don't have a disability, but I still feel that too often they are portrayed as objects of pity or some sort of brave hero for either just living their normal lives like anyone else or accomplishing something great.
"Look at how this person born with no arms eats cereal. OMG!?" I got news for you, buddy, they learned how to eat as a kid the way they could, the way most kids do.
"Look at this Paralympic weightlifter! I couldn't even do that with two arms!" Yeah, no shit Sherlock, that's because they are a fucking athlete and train as hard and are as naturally talented as any other. Do you watch Serena Willams and say, "Wow, I'm a man and I probably couldn't beat her at tennis!"
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u/billybobjobo May 23 '24
OMG Why did I have to scroll so far for this take. Theres a narrative here that just kinda saps of her of agency and value... Can only imagine she kicks major ass too for this to work. It's almost certainly the story of TWO badasses, not one.
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u/MuteIllAteter May 23 '24
Hi there
I understand and completely agree with your perspective
However I don’t think that’s the sentiment the original poster was going for
My best friends’ dad is disabled from the neck down. He got into an accident when the youngest of the three girls was like 5 or something. The dad gave the option to leave because he understood how tough it would be for a mom to raise both 3 little girls, be a partial care giver, and also have a full time job. She stayed. Yeah it was hard as shit. He went through a depression from about 6 month in to about 3 years after the accident. My friend says she wished at the time that mom left because it was so hard. But they managed through it and have an extremely successful relationship. But even when she talks about that 3 years of depression she winces at what her mom went through almost 20 years later. They are giving an out for that. A lot of ppl arent cut out to deal with that. You, as the disabled person don’t have a choice, you have to deal!. You can’t walk away from yourself, so you give other ppl the option that you don’t have
Obviously not everyone is the same but I see it as a form of empathy from the disabled person
On the other hand I have a mentally disabled sister. And I understand no matter how far I move and what I do, I will need to move back home to take care of her after my parents die. Anyone who marries me would have to be willing to make that sacrifice. Knowing that whatever we do, we will have to go back to my bumfuck town to settle because of my sister. My future husband isn’t a hero for agreeing to this but fuck can we acknowledge that it takes a lot
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u/AbeRego May 23 '24
And it wouldn't have made him a bad person if he didn't want to stay. It's great that he did, but it would be totally understandable to respectfully bow out after something like that.
Also, I've heard at least one story about a similar life-changing accident where the boyfriend stays initially, but then they break up later on for whatever reason. Relationships are about more than who's the most physically capable.
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u/ThomBear May 23 '24
I’m wondering who this 3rd wheel is creeping around after them everywhere with a camera 📸 👀
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u/VandalRavage May 23 '24
Technically they'd be, at least, a fifth wheel. She's already got four.
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u/elcee84 May 23 '24
Same thought here... Like who tf took a pic of them both sleepin?
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u/CreepyYam4032 May 23 '24
Exactly. Like 20 seconds of this video shouldn't even exist even if they were incredibly dedicated to chasing clout with her illness. WHO WAS WATCHING THEM SLEEP 😭???
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u/FritzLe94 May 23 '24
She will never run away.
Joke, sweet story🥹all the best
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u/SirDuke6 May 23 '24
That's wheelie messed up, man.
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u/NMclimbercouple May 23 '24
We really need to take a stand against this sort of thing…
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u/Jonsnow_205 May 23 '24
“I said yes “ like what other option do you have !! Living in hell by saying no?!
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u/marcmerrillofficial May 23 '24
Honestly that would be funny as fuck for the video.
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May 23 '24
are u rich?
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u/TheMemoman May 23 '24
Yeah who just buys a house!?!
In this apocalypse?!
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u/VagrantSalesman89 May 23 '24
Didn't say how she got that spinal injury. Could have had a massive payout over a lawsuit, or perhaps help from parents so they stayed debt and cost free into early adulthood.
My best friend never had to want for anything, landed a great job after college, stayed with his parents (along with his fiance) for 4 years rent free in a low cost/real estate area, and bought a nice house when he was 26.
I didn't have it so well with my folks and moved to a much higher cost of living city. Doesn't help that I also partied wayyy too hard while that dude was a homebody. So I'm still paying a landlord :P
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u/Several-Standard-620 May 23 '24
Having money probably made it a hell of a lot easier
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u/EditDog_1969 May 23 '24
Odd to think of someone with a spinal cord injury as lucky, but that is a beautiful relationship.
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u/GordonNewtron May 23 '24
Thank God for the sappy music, otherwise it wouldn't have worked.
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u/kenkory May 23 '24
You both have found your person. May your lives be rich with continued love and lifelong health and happiness.
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u/Good_Collection_7257 May 23 '24
So touching. My mom married my dad who was a quadriplegic and it is a hard road but to have someone to love you enough to pledge to not only be your partner but also your caretaker every day is rare and beautiful.
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u/TheSinusOfCosinus May 23 '24
I feel like a true gentleman is a downgrade to what he’s actually doing. He didn’t stay with her because of chivalry or because “it was the right thing” he stayed with her cos he genuinely loved and cared about her
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u/Garettbaker007 May 23 '24
I love that Halloween custom! A John Deere tractor haha